Month: August 2016

The house we don’t have yet. 

My partner and I have been planning on living together from around 4 months of being together. We decided very early on that we were serious about each other and from then on, we’ve been collecting things for the house we don’t have yet. 

To say we’re an unusual couple would be a slight understatement. I am what most people would call a ‘goth’ or ‘greebo’ and my boyfriend also has an alternative look; long blonde hair, beard and rarely without a metal tshirt on. 

Living as a couple has been our plan pretty much from the start and it’s been a wonderful experience over the past two years collecting things for our home to be. We both decided that we didn’t want a flat-packed home from IKEA or Argos. We are passionate about old things, antique furniture and things that have held the test of time. 

We bought a gothic revival Victorian octagonal table and drove many many miles to the Peak District to pick it up. We bought a beautiful black Victorian dresser from a man whose wife wanted more modern furniture (thank you very much!) and we have a writing desk and wall mirror to match. 

Our latest purchases were a French ecclesiastical antique candle stick and a wonderful planter that I’m now looking for a stand to put it on! 

We’re definitely going down the Victorian route with our decor. Think, dark coloured walls, dark furniture and lots of candlesticks. I’ve been obsessed with taxidermy and curios since childhood so it was a huge relief to have a partner who also doesn’t hate my love for the macabre. 

At the moment, because of the planter we’ve just found, I’m in the middle of researching which house plants I’m least likely to kill and which house plants were most popular during the Victorian times. I’ve settled on a Boston Fern for the planter above. I love ferns. 

Here are some more images of things we’ve bought for The House We Don’t Have Yet. 


New Project; Handmade Scented Soy Candles by Von Black

When I was around 16 my Dad helped me to make some candles. It was a fun little project we did together; we shopped in charity shops for loads of pretty glasses, used turkish coffee jugs to melt the wax and they ended up looking pretty fantastic!

So, with my little bit of candle making experience, I’ve decided to give it another go – this time, with a little bit more finesse. I’m stocking up on some very interesting essential oils and I hope to create a small batch of handmade, scented soy candles with a dark edge to them. I am so excited to get started on my next project… Watch this space.

Paris, Prague and Budapest

As I’ve posted before, my partner and I are keen travellers. We’re both extremely inquisitive people and we both share a love of seeing what the world has to offer.

In March this year, we went on a 6 day jaunt across Europe. We decided to visit three countries and spend 2 days in each country. 

First, we got the Eurostar from London to Paris. We stayed right by the Gare Du Nord as I needed to walk as little as possible. We visited the Eiffel Tower, Notre Dame cathedral on Easter Sunday and queued for HOURS to see the Paris Catacombs…

Here are the Paris Catacombs

Notre Dame Cathedral

We then flew from Charles de Gaulle airport to Prague airport. We stayed at the 4 star Hotel Yasmin in Prague. It was beautiful and the best breakfast I have ever had! We booked a taxi into the old town and had a mooch around. I found this amazing little bric-a-brac shop and if I had more space in our suitcase I would’ve easily spent a small fortune in there! It absolutely threw it out with rain while we were in the old town so we jumped into a doorway to find it was the entrance to a museum of medieval tortue, so of course we had to go in!

Prague was sensationally beautiful. We most definitely want to go back and stay nearer the old town as there was so much to look at and so little time to do so. I watched a documentary years ago about an ossuary in Prague and ever since then, it has been on my bucket list. Knowing this, my partner took us on the train out of Prague and towards a town called Kostnice to visit Sedlec Ossuary.

After 2 days in Prague we packed up and flew to Budapest. We stayed in a rather grand looking Novotel Centrum. 

We found the most amazingly hipster restaurant in the Jewish quarter in Budapest. It had a library! And served the most beautiful Hungarian wine called Bull’s Blood. Divine. 

I feel I need to describe how difficult it was for me, physically. I’ve written before about having Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome so I hope by now you’re not surprised when I say this holiday really took it out of me! We stayed two days I each country so I could sleep and rest on the second day. The pain rehab would call this ‘boom and bust’ but I call this ‘real life’. 

There is no real way you can pace yourself on holiday like this. We made sure I had a box full of painkillers and heat pads and I travelled with all my splints and walking stick. I sat down on anything and everything I could put my butt on and went to bed early every night. I took a nearly an entire week of rest to recover from the travelling (well, as much as I recover anyway!). 

This is the only way I’ve found works. Others may pace themselves or go on beach holidays but I refuse to. Firstly, I hate the sun (don’t like being tanned) and it makes my POTS worse. European breaks are ideal in terms of short flights and semi-decent weather. 

Our next trip is in December when we fly to Basel in Switzerland then two days later we fly to Freiburg in Germany. It will be snowy, wintry and Christmas markets galore! I cannot wait! 

I made this…

A few weeks ago, my partner and I signed up to an adult education 1 day course in Stained Glass making. We’re quite a creative couple and are always looking for things we can do together. This one day stained glass course was a no brainer – we both adore churches and cathedrals, especially for their incredible stained glass windows. So, we thought we’d have a go at creating something of our own!

I was quite nervous when we got to the adult learning centre. It all seemed quite daunting looking at all the tools and equipment laid out before us.

The tutor started by explaining the difference between different types of glass, cutting, staining, painted glass etc. Then we went through the usual ‘elf n safety stuff and we got on with our creation.

I have to say, I really struggled cutting the glass. My hands aren’t very strong at all and I suffer with chronic and acute pain in my fingers and wrists. You do have to press really quite hard and keep it smooth at the same time using a glass cutter like this one:


I don’t think I’d recommend glass cutting to someone who struggles with their hands! I shan’t be making any more stained glass panels, I don’t think.

Anyway, we cut the lead came (the silvery metal stuff that hold the glass in place) and placed it all together ready for soldering.


An example of soldering Image taken from search engine

Soldering looks easy, but is actually an art in itself. It is so easy to make it look awful, as I found out. I’m hoping I can file it down a little, polish or paint it up and hide some of my awful soldering, but anyway…

I made this!